Thursday, February 20, 2020

Betrayal

Betrayal is like the oldest Banyan tree at the corner of the playing-field
its branches droop towards the ground with its own weight

Betrayal is those huge dark paintings on the whitewashed wall of the museum
you leave the hall but they never leave you

Betrayal is Pablo Neruda's saddest lines
you will learn to love again, dilating pupils, learning to hold gaze, but tears will still well-up

Betrayal is like the wound on the beggar's hand
from which hurt drips and it changes color from bright red to white patch, but stays forever

Betrayal is the constant sound of footsteps behind you
you hear them even when you do not look back

Betrayal is like cooked boneless chicken from the roadside tiny stall
you enjoy the soft flesh and muscles in your mouth but fall sick afterwards

Betrayal is a nice boy's interest for watching pornography
you get the momentary high but can't do away with the puckish nausea that stays in your belly button

Betrayal is like first love
rushing, lingering, breathing down, always there to touch, smell, taste, rock like, forever staying in the privacy of the silence.

Wednesday, February 19, 2020

Letter to RURU - No 2

Dear Ruru,

It was my birthday.


As I crossed and reached the other side of 50 among all the warmth and love and wishes, I become grateful yet contemplative (as always. Even in my childhood days my sister’s school friends used to ask her, to quote them verbatim, why I always wear ‘a gyani buddha’ expression! ). I suffer from a peculiar seasonal sadness that has nothing to do with my real life existence. As I continue to cherish a strange joyous ecstasy with a weird deep rooted melancholia, I begin to wonder about the binaries and paradoxes that I live and think in.

I keep protesting against comments like ‘Girls, you should always walk in groups’ questioning if ‘aklaa chalo re’ is only for boys! But, it is taking me months to make up my mind before I venture out for my solo trips and tours, something that I intend to pursue as I know this will liberate my soul. As I am constantly reaching out to friends, acquaintances (at the risk of being repetitive and hence boring) expecting them to convince me that it’s safe to travel alone, I keep struggling through my fear and paranoia.

Another one is when I take pride in the fact that I am aging gracefully, yet every alternate month I postpone my plan of not using hair-colour to cover up my greys. Also, I just can’t suppress my thrill when people say Gosh, you don’t look your age at all! :-P 

Increasingly, I feel uncomfortable among my age group. Most often I find their way of thinking as odd and weird. I relate to the millenial and the Gen Zee more easily, and comfortably, yet my boomer-self needs a 'print-out' of the flight ticket :-). I guess my religious/spiritual orientation could be a reason behind making me feel out-of-place most of the time. Despite being a happy Hindu, most often I get bored with rituals. My most favorite people and pillars of strength have been Nilima Khatun, Yusuf, Aayub, and Yasmin. I have enjoyed Eid along with them to my heart’s content and allowed them to touch me ‘thakurer ashon’ (the tiny temple at home) without batting an eyelid. And I have continued to be extremely uneasy among people who squirmed at the prospect of anyone from other caste or other religion touching our God. And I do not know whether I am right or wrong but I have no intention to change even a minute bit.

Again, usually, I am the most practical one around but it takes just one bout of rainfall or a whiff of petrichor to transform me into Alice in the true sense of the character.

As I continue to remain grateful to all who like me, love me, accept me despite my odd paradoxes; as I continue to nurture an exuberant, sensuous 25 year old mind within a not-so-young body; I keep living life, happily, among my paradoxes, (though It may be a headache for those who are close to me).  I am in no hurry to bridge those differences or gaps. I have learnt to trust them, to allow them to do their quiet, subterranean work. Meanwhile my pursuit to evolve and grow as a human being continues…



Sunday, February 16, 2020

Letter to RURU - No.1

Hi Ruru,

It's been quite sometime since I promised to write to you. Actually, I have written to you, in my mind many-a-times, played hide-n-seek with word scrabbles, but it all got jumbled up. So, today, I thought let me reach out to you. Otherwise, you too would be lonely in your mind, waiting for me. Well, may be not, but I love to think it that way. :-)

You know Ruru, with age I am realizing certain things. I am realizing that all the people in my life are like window panes. I keep pressing my face against the panes; I press hard, liking the coldness of the glass against my cheek. But at the fag end of the journey, I realize that all my life I could only carve and draw different designs and impressions on those glass panes with my cheek, nose, eyelashes, lips, but I always remained outside, standing for long hours, pressing my cheek and nose against the glass-pane. May be I too am a window-pane for somebody, may be that's the way it is.

Hey Ruru, I like those pigeons who fly in freedom. I like how they shake their feathers and hop around in dignified gait. Those peacocks too. They are not ashamed of talking about love.

listen, after reading my letters, make paper boats out of these. let the words float and swing along the rhythm of the water.